Mumbai: Butterflies in your stomach on seeing your crush but are you hesitant or not able to gather strength to approach them? It is not as tough as it seems but yes, your approach should be good and impressive.

While we won’t suggest you appear fake or do unnecessary showoff, genuinely leave a mark on them with your conversation skills. How do you do that? Well, we are here to help you. We have suggested three topics that are sure to make a lasting impact and help you to proceed with your journey with them further.

1. Genuine compliments: Compliment them for their dressing sense, their way of speaking or whatever you may like about them. Don’t show any kind of desperation or put on a superficial behaviour to make them like you. Be authentic in your approach and actions.

2. Friendly gestures: Behave like a gentleman or a kind woman and help them. Offering them a chair to sit on or a glass of water if you feel they need them or pull the door for them, etc. Even asking them, “Are you comfortable or are you okay?” if you feel they aren’t making a great impact on them.

3. Questions to know them better: When you get to sit and talk to them ask them questions like:

a) “What do you value most in a friendship?” This question gives you a fair idea about the qualities your crush values and admires the most in others.

b) “Which is your favourite hangout place and cuisine?” It will help you decide a place where you can ask them out for a date in the future and cuisine.

c) “What are you passionate about?” If both of your passions match or even if they don’t, this is a thoughtful question which will make them realise your genuineness to know them.

e) “Are you a morning person or a night owl?” It will help you decide whether you should engage in night chatting with your crush or not if they are a morning person. You can drop them a message before their bedtime so that you can be their last thought. Try to go for a morning walk or jogging if that is their morning routine and after you develop that friendly bond with them.

f) “What is your go-to comfort food?” This will help you in future to lift their mood by bringing their comfort food, from homemade khichdi to chocolate ice cream etc. They will like their thoughtful question now and gesture later.

g) “The kind of music you like.” Music lovers like to talk about their preferred music. You can bond with them in a better way if your tastes match. Don’t forget to compliment their music taste when they are speaking about it with excitement.

Believe us, these conversation starters are bound to leave a memorable impression on your crush and can take your romantic journey with them further. Best of luck!

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04.04.2024

Mumbai: Butterflies in your stomach on seeing your crush but are you hesitant or not able to gather strength to approach them? It is not as tough as it seems but yes, your approach should be good and impressive.

While we won’t suggest you appear fake or do unnecessary showoff, genuinely leave a mark on them with your conversation skills. How do you do that? Well, we are here to help you. We have suggested three topics that are sure to make a lasting impact and help you to proceed with your journey with them further.

1. Genuine compliments: Compliment them for their dressing sense, their way of speaking or whatever you may like about them. Don’t show any kind of desperation or........

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