There’s no denying that flexibility in the workplace is all the rage these days. A Deloitte survey found that 94 percent of respondents believed flexible work would benefit them.
Why? Forty-three percent of professionals cite less stress and better mental health as the main benefits of work flexibility. In second place was a better work-life balance. Almost 30 percent of professionals report that flexibility at work would increase their productivity or efficiency at work — as well as their job satisfaction and morale.
Despite this, inflexibility may appear counterintuitive in a world that promotes flexibility. But wouldn’t it be awesome if you could unlock your true potential by saying no, setting boundaries, and prioritizing your values?
Intentional inflexibility does not mean being rigid or stubborn. Instead, it’s about making conscious choices based on what you value most and what is most important to you. By fiercely protecting your time, energy, and attention, you can spend them on what matters most.
You can think of it this way: imagine your life as a beautiful mosaic. The tiles represent commitments, responsibilities, and demands on your time. Adding tiles to a mosaic will make it more intricate and potentially beautiful.
However, you can only fit so many tiles before the whole thing collapses. When we intend to be inflexible, we choose the tiles that create the most meaningful and fulfilling picture, which may mean saying no to others in the process.
In that light, here are some powerful reasons you should embrace intentional inflexibility.
It is possible to shut off unexpected and spontaneous joys of life by being intentionally inflexible. And that’s fair.
On the other hand, meticulous individuals may find this beneficial. In addition, staying committed to your principles and plans can be advantageous in certain situations.
So, how do you identify your areas of intentional inflexibility? Here are a few steps to follow:
It’s important to remember that intentional inflexibility isn’t about being rigid or unyielding. Instead, it’s all about choosing your battles wisely.
Here are a few ways you can apply it.
Develop a solid and consistent routine for your mornings and evenings. With this clear framework, your day will run smoother, regardless of your busy schedule. As a bonus, you’ll have more time for yourself, relationships, and priorities.
At the same time, a clear structure does not have to be rigid or prevent you from doing things on a whim. But, it does give you the opportunity to manage your day in a flexible way while carving out time for the things that matter most to you.
By getting clear on your future measurable goals, you can increase your intentionality. The reason? Taking action becomes easier when you understand the importance of achieving the results you want.
Further, when your vision is aligned with measurable goals, you are more likely to take action and be motivated. Setting powerful goals can make you more intentional. If you want to understand the importance of your goals, picture yourself having achieved them.
Also, if you feel emotionally invested in your bigger purpose and goals, you will take action with intention. When you see your life after achieving your goals, you feel empowered and motivated every day.
To maximize your output and avoid burnout, you must protect your most productive hours. To achieve that, follow these strategies:
To sort the important tasks from the non-urgent ones on your to-do list, use the Eisenhower Matrix (also known as the urgent-important matrix).
If something urgent needs to be taken care of immediately, you can either come to them or they can call you.
Among productivity killers, meetings top the list. Therefore, it’s always wise to question the necessity of a meeting. For instance, could we have a phone call or a Slack thread instead?
Also, politely ask who should attend the meeting. Are six attendees really necessary when three would do? Does the meeting have to be an hour, or would 30 minutes suffice?
If you must attend, bring an agenda, agree with your colleagues to prepare ideas in advance, and shorten small talk.
Rather than saying no completely — see if you can offer an alternative that respects your bounds while offering a way to compromise. For example, you cannot make it to next Tuesday’s meeting. However, sharing your calendar with the other invitees may help you find a more convenient date later in the month.
Within your chosen framework, strive for continuous improvement. Even within boundaries, growth is possible.
Be courageous enough to walk away from a situation that requires you to compromise your core values. The importance of protecting your integrity cannot be overstated.
It is important to maintain an unwavering core and be flexible in other areas. Within your boundaries, learn, adapt, and grow. Imagine yourself as a forest, with each tree representing a core value but the entire ecosystem flourishing on diversity and adaptability.
Intentional inflexibility doesn’t mean being rigid; it means standing by what matters most. When faced with constant change, choosing your non-negotiables can provide clarity, strength, and authenticity. Don’t be afraid to bend with the wind, but remember that sometimes the strongest roots last the longest.
There are a few different interpretations of “intentional inflexibility.” Here, however, we mean adhering to rules or principles.
You might limit yourself to checking your email once or twice daily, for instance. This method is most often used by people who are meticulous about planning and want to achieve their goals.
A person might choose to be intentionally inflexible for several reasons:
Yes, intentional inflexibility does have some downsides, such as:
Listed below are some signs that you may be being too rigid:
If you recognize any of these signs, you may benefit from being more flexible. In order to do this, you do not have to give up your values or principles, but you do have to be open to new information and experiences.
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