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Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib hasn’t set foot in Gaza for two decades. But every day, he picks up his phone and gets transported to a war zone. His whole family lives in Gaza—nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles—and his brother, Mohammed. WhatsApp is their lifeline.

Right now, Alkhatib’s brother is in the city of Rafah. He has a couple of younger kids with him and his wife. They’re sleeping in an abandoned coffee shop. Rafah is the southernmost city in Gaza—what many people saw as the last stop in a long flight from Israeli bombardment. Over the past few months, the population has swelled from 250,000 to more than 1 million. And Mohammed? He has just been told that he should look into relocating again.

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“He came from Khan Yunis. And he was in Gaza City. He fled seven different times. Pretty much every time he’s fled, the place where he was at was partially or fully hit and destroyed,” Alkhatib said.

Like everyone else in Rafah, Alkhatib’s family is there because there’s no other place left. It’s not exactly safe. A couple of months back, 28 of his family members were killed when an Israeli strike flattened a family home. But everything is relative, he says.

Then, this weekend, things changed. In an interview on ABC News, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu publicly dug in on a plan to send ground troops in to this quasi–“safe zone.” And early Sunday morning, Netanyahu sent Israel Defense Forces in. They freed two Israeli hostages—and they killed dozens of Gazans.

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Alkhatib is certain that this kind of assault will lead to a humanitarian disaster. “No. 1: the transportation methods. The roads that allowed people to leave and head south are largely now either gone, depleted, damaged, or destroyed,” he said. “No. 2 is that if an operation in Rafah takes place, that ultimately will take the Rafah crossing out of commission, one way or another. The lifeline of Gaza, where the majority of the aid has been coming in, will be severed. How are you going to have any supplies coming into Gaza at the scale that is needed to sustain a large population?”

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On Thursday’s episode of What Next, we spoke about what it’s like waiting things out in Rafah. Our conversation has been edited and condensed for clarity.

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Mary Harris: Tell me about your brother. What’s happened to him after Oct. 7 really seems to embodies the constant motion that Gazans have been in since Israel’s ground invasion. Where was he on Oct. 7, and then how did that change over the course of the last few months?

Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib: He was working. He’s a senior program manager for this British NGO in the Gaza Strip. And he was at work when things unfolded. But soon after, it became clear that this was going to be a disaster of epic proportions. And a week later, on Oct. 13, our family home was bombed when Mohammed and 33 people were inside the house—with no warning, no heads up, no rooftop strikes by smaller drones to give people a chance to leave. The building came down on them. Our family’s apartment is on the second floor, so they pushed their way out of the rubble. He has a 13-year-old, a 2-year-old, and a 1-year-old baby, and his wife. His car was destroyed. Their properties were destroyed. They didn’t manage to get anything out, but they got out.

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He called me immediately, and that was one of the only times I’ve ever heard him cry—at how overwhelmed but weirdly delighted and happy he was that they were still alive. But then he was also concerned about the other family members still in the building. Roughly 10 or 15 family members had varying injuries, most of them moderate to severe. We lost my 13-year-old niece, who’s my cousin’s daughter.

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So yes, it was a horrendous beginning to this arduous journey from Gaza City in the north all the way down to Rafah.

You mention there wasn’t even a warning bombing, like, a little drone bombing to basically tell people to move before you do a big bomb.

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That used to be a common strategy. They call it “rooftop knocks.” And supposedly some people will cite these as an example of how the IDF is the most moral army in the world, because it at least bombs you with little bombs before it bombs you with the big ones.

Did your brother’s family immediately begin moving? Because, as you said, their car was destroyed.

He went to three different homes in Gaza City. He went to a friend’s place, and then that was hit, and they fled again. They went to two different homes, in-laws’ apartments, his wife’s family.

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And it was the norm for them to be in an apartment with 30, 40, at times 45 people at once. They had very limited food. There were times when they found some grasses that they would boil and mix with white rice, just to provide some texture, because all they ate was bread and rice. There was no electricity, no water.

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In November, he made his way out of Gaza City. There were thousands of people—3,000 or so—that made it out of southern Gaza City through IDF controls. It was a deadly journey. They had to walk by so many dead people. Some of the folks in the walking convoy were injured, and they had to leave them behind. Then, in early January is when they finally made their way to Rafah.

Over the weekend when Israel conducted these raids in Rafah and freed two hostages, do you know how that operation went down? Did your relatives experience it in some way?

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Absolutely. Rafah does not see widespread bombardment. Rafah is relatively quiet in comparison to the rest of the Gaza Strip. So, there was just this massive, sudden, overwhelming amount of fire and bombardment from aerial assets and artillery bombardment. Apache gunships came over to Rafah and started firing their cannons, which have a particularly terrorizing and distinctive sound. It echoes across the whole city. The way he described it, and he texted me when this was happening, was just a sudden, massive amount of firepower that lasted for a couple of hours when the hostage rescue was taking place . And unfortunately, it wasn’t just firepower that was applied in the area where the rescue operation took place, which was already in a dense urban environment. But it was fire that took place across multiple sectors in Rafah, including areas near the border and far away from the rescue site.

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I was going to ask you why this raid resulted in so many civilian deaths, but I feel like you just answered that question.

As a realist and pragmatist, if this operation is going to happen anyway, I wish that a targeted, more specific approach would take place whereby firepower is very specifically applied in specific areas and against specific legitimate military targets or combatants, not the large-scale destructive operations that we’ve seen in the north and in the center.

Do you feel like this raid is a prelude to what would happen if Israel launched a full-scale assault on Rafah?

Precisely that—in the absence of legitimate options to evacuate the civilian population, to provide alternative safe grounds and safe zones. We need urgent and immediate action, because what we saw in the raid is a tiny example of what will be a massively deadly operation that kills thousands of people and exacerbates the already horrendous misery that civilians are experiencing.

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We should say Benjamin Netanyahu says the Israeli government has a plan for relocation of civilians in Gaza during any kind of ground operation there. Do we know what that plan is?

That’s what’s so puzzling. A plan to evacuate millions of civilians has to be publicly and transparently and openly articulated and explained. It’s supposed to give details and provide hope and demonstrate seriousness that we’re actually thinking about this. Instead, these thus far have proven to be empty, blank media talking points that are insincere, that are not coherent, that are not supported by facts on the ground, that are not bolstered by specific and detailed instructions and ideas. And instead it’s like, Well, you can go back up north. Go back up north to what?

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The Wall Street Journal had this map where they said, We’ll do camps along the water. We’ll move people essentially to the west.

I have been calling for some of that, and I believe that some of that can happen. But until the Israeli War Cabinet and the office of Prime Minister Netanyahu show how alternative aid routes are going to take place—we need a coherent strategy that shows the role of international NGOs and where the civilians will go. And even efforts to start erecting some of those sites where the civilians will go.

If the population were to move south the way they have been doing, they’d run straight into Egypt. Do you think it’s a possibility that people are then crossing and leaving Gaza?

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That’s not going to happen. We’ve seen Egypt, time and again, not only politically iterate that it will not allow the mass exodus of Gazans into Egypt and northern Sinai, but we’ve seen the bolstering of Egyptian military units all along Gaza’s border. We’ve seen Egypt building tiers of walls and barriers to prevent the mass exodus of Gazans. So, Egypt is not going to allow such a scenario to take place. And I’m not saying whether or not it’s right or wrong. I wish that the civilian population would be evacuated. I think there’s a lot more space for maneuvering politically to make sure that we come up with humanitarian solutions.

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Does it reassure you at all that President Joe Biden has reportedly told Benjamin Netanyahu that a military operation in Rafah shouldn’t proceed without a plan to protect the more than 1 million people in the city?

Thus far, I see no evidence that the United States is able to exert meaningful pressure on Israel to modify the conduct of its military operation. We’ve seen leaks and talks of how Biden—and the Biden administration—has grown frustrated with Benjamin Netanyahu because he’s not adjusting his approach and not coming up with serious plans.

Some have even argued that the rescue operation was specifically meant to signal the inevitability of the need to go into Rafah, because that’s where a lot of the hostages are believed to be. And the success of the operation was meant to lay a political foundation, inside Israel and internationally, that there’s an appetite for this.

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And again, to be clear, I’m absolutely delighted that these hostages have been released, even though I am devastated that it meant the deaths of dozens of Palestinian civilians. And that poses the question: Are some lives worth more than others?

Shortly after the hostage rescue, officials from Israel and the U.S. met with Hamas mediators to discuss a possible cease-fire. Those talks are still underway, but Israeli media is already reporting that Netanyahu has told his negotiators not to return. You say you’re hopeful for a cease-fire—eventually—but that doesn’t make you optimistic.

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I am concerned that certainly Hamas is not being practical and realistic in its demands. Hamas is desperate—after all the death and destruction it has brought upon its people—to have something to show for it, and it’s desperate to show that it managed to achieve something after Gaza has basically been destroyed, and tens of thousands are dead, and millions are displaced. And so that’s what worries me. The Israeli side is not going to make any concessions to Hamas. And I’m also thinking that Hamas, unfortunately, is ruthless in its pursuits, and it is willing to fight on to the last Gazans. And they don’t care how many of their own people die, and they are, in effect, holding their own people hostage in addition to the Israeli hostages.

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What you’ve been saying in your writing is that any negotiated settlement that doesn’t plant the seeds to some kind of countervailing force to Hamas is a failure.

Absolutely, 1,000 percent. The Israelis and the Israeli government will think of it as a security problem. For me, as a Gazan with skin in the game, it’s an existential problem. We are talking about Gaza ceasing to exist. It’s already ceased to exist as we knew it. If we don’t create some kind of a beginning—a road map—for political transformation that breaks the deadlock … Basically, this has to be Gaza’s final and last war.

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What needs to happen is a negotiated settlement where the first phase is get the hostages out and flood Gaza with humanitarian aid to stop the famine but most importantly initiate a provisional, transformative period that allows Gaza to become a hub of economic development, of Palestinian culture, of the arts. I have ideas, and people who are 10 times smarter than myself have proposed what I believe are viable options and alternatives to endless conflict. And most importantly, having this conflict be the initiation of a new Palestinian state and the recognition by the United States and by the United Kingdom. Recognizing the actual state of Palestine is one of the most powerful means of sidelining Hamas and demonstrating the futility of their efforts and of their armed resistance.

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Before we go, I want to follow up on you personally. Do you know when the next time you’ll speak to your brother is?

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I’m hoping it’ll be tonight. I want to get an update on what’s happening with my cousin who’s in the hospital. I want to get an update on what his plans are—if he has found a new place to shelter in and what their plans are for evacuating Rafah.

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Do you think about what it will take for you to feel like your family is safe?

I’ll feel that my family is safe when this war stops. Even a 45-day cease-fire could provide the framework for building a long-term sustainable process for transformation. I will only feel safe when this war is over, when there is a formal cessation of hostilities. Until then, it is a daily and hourly struggle. It’s always in the back of my head.

On a daily basis, when I send that WhatsApp message and I get those two checkmarks that say it was delivered, I feel moderately better just knowing that his phone wasn’t blown up and that his phone is still receiving messages. And even if he doesn’t respond for a few hours or many hours, I’ll at least feel like his phone received my message, which means he’s still alive.

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Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib hasn’t set foot in Gaza for two decades. But every day, he picks up his phone and gets transported to a war zone. His whole family lives in Gaza—nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles—and his brother, Mohammed. WhatsApp is their lifeline.

Right now, Alkhatib’s brother is in the city of Rafah. He has a couple of younger kids with him and his wife. They’re sleeping in an abandoned coffee shop. Rafah is the southernmost city in Gaza—what many people saw as the last stop in a long flight from Israeli bombardment. Over the past few months, the population has swelled from 250,000 to more than 1 million. And Mohammed? He has just been told that he should look into relocating again.

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“He came from Khan Yunis. And he was in Gaza City. He fled seven different times. Pretty much every time he’s fled, the place where he was at was partially or fully hit and destroyed,” Alkhatib said.

Like everyone else in Rafah, Alkhatib’s family is there because there’s no other place left. It’s not exactly safe. A couple of months back, 28 of his family members were killed when an Israeli strike flattened a family home. But everything is relative, he says.

Then, this weekend, things changed. In an interview on ABC News, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu publicly dug in on a plan to send ground troops in to this quasi–“safe zone.” And early Sunday morning, Netanyahu sent Israel Defense Forces in. They freed two Israeli hostages—and they killed dozens of Gazans.

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Alkhatib is certain that this kind of assault will lead to a humanitarian disaster. “No. 1: the transportation methods. The roads that allowed people to leave and head south are largely now either gone, depleted, damaged, or destroyed,” he said. “No. 2 is that if an operation in Rafah takes place, that ultimately will take the Rafah crossing out of commission, one way or another. The lifeline of Gaza, where the majority of the aid has been coming in, will be severed. How are you going to have any supplies coming into Gaza at the scale that is needed to sustain a large population?”

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On Thursday’s episode of What Next, we spoke about what it’s like waiting things out in Rafah. Our conversation has been edited and condensed for clarity.

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Mary Harris: Tell me about your brother. What’s happened to him after Oct. 7 really seems to embodies the constant motion that Gazans have been in since Israel’s ground invasion. Where was he on Oct. 7, and then how did that change over the course of the last few months?

Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib: He was working. He’s a senior program manager for this British NGO in the Gaza Strip. And he was at work when things unfolded. But soon after, it became clear that this was going to be a disaster of epic proportions. And a week later, on Oct. 13, our family home was bombed when Mohammed and 33 people were inside the house—with no warning, no heads up, no rooftop strikes by smaller drones to give people a chance to leave. The building came down on them. Our family’s apartment is on the second floor, so they pushed their way out of the rubble. He has a 13-year-old, a 2-year-old, and a 1-year-old baby, and his wife. His car was destroyed. Their properties were destroyed. They didn’t manage to get anything out, but they got out.

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He called me immediately, and that was one of the only times I’ve ever heard him cry—at how overwhelmed but weirdly delighted and happy he was that they were still alive. But then he was also concerned about the other family members still in the building. Roughly 10 or 15 family members had varying injuries, most........

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