Thanks to my beloved professor, Susie Snyder, a proponent of client-centered strength-based approaches to therapy, I developed a keen interest in narrative therapy while completing my master’s in social work program.

Narrative therapy provides various therapeutic benefits for clients, such as an increased level of self-understanding and self-compassion by transforming life’s challenges into strengths and freedom from an internalized narrative of self-blame.

It created a niche for me by amalgamating my English literature background with a newfound clinical knowledge in the field of social work. Being able to navigate the two fields offered me comfort and inner peace with a sense of continuity and even helped with personal struggles post-pandemic.

What I like most about narrative therapy is that it is non-blaming and non-pathological. This helps to create a safe space that allows clients’ stories to take center stage while facilitating positive change from within. As the name implies, narrative therapy uses storytelling to give new meaning and clarity to stressful or traumatic experiences. The role of a therapist is to help clients externalize problems rather than personalize them and reconstruct their stories in a new and positive way that liberates and empowers them. In this process, clients find their voice as courageous victors, not hopeless victims, and gain control over their stories as experts in their own lives. In narrative therapy, all types of writing are believed to foster better self-knowledge and nurture psychological and emotional balance.

With storytelling, safe spaces and healing in mind, I was specifically looking for a therapeutic book club to connect with members of my community as the COVID-19 pandemic receded. Seeking this connection was natural as increased familial caregiving responsibilities removed me from social settings. I also needed space to process negative emotions from situational demands and rebuild self-compassion as the caregiving duties began to deplete my emotional wealth. I had tried several book clubs in the past but did not feel that they were a good fit for me for various reasons: they were either too structured or too intense; the discussions became more of a social time; or some members did not read beforehand and therefore could not contribute beyond “I-agree” in every question posed.

Nonetheless, I decided to give it another try. Early last year, I saw an advertisement for a therapeutic book club, which meets once a month for two hours. An outside person facilitates, and a librarian can be present if they wish. The club prefers a small group of no more than five to allow people to share their stories without feeling forced or rushed. Members receive a reading list of 12 books, ranging from classical to hot off-the-press. Creating and maintaining a group culture of safe space is important to such a book club, so general rules determine how members should communicate and treat each other. These rules are enforced to promote a sense of privacy, confidentiality and mutual respect by having all members read them together out loud to begin each meeting.

This book club incorporates certain elements of a non-judgmental and no-shaming narrative therapy, which I am familiar with. Each meeting is designed to help members delve into emotions conjured while reading the text in order to develop a deeper understanding of self and gain insight into the world they live in. Analyzing characters and determining the author’s intention are not goals of the meeting. No advice is given to anyone without permission because the book club subscribes to a belief that we are cognizant of what is necessary in our own lives and are qualified to make decisions and act accordingly. Instead, only empathetic listening without judgment or criticism is practiced. Lastly, at the end of the meeting, members are sometimes asked to write poems that describe their emotions as a gateway to healing. This is an emotional journey based on increased self-awareness that promotes clarity in thinking, healing, and a self-affirming narrative while slowly building rapport among the members.

At the core of my therapeutic book club meeting lies a belief that we have the power to rewrite our story from a positive perspective, even when our internalized narrative is fraught with negativity and self-blame. Harnessing this power seems particularly important as we live in a world that often does not allow alternative stories to emerge. This therapeutic book club does not substitute for regular therapy, but I do believe that engaging in efforts to see ourselves mirrored in our emotions and reconstructing our stories in a new way is empowering. On that note, I would like to encourage readers to find a therapeutic book club available in your area and experience the benefits it offers first-hand. It is well worth it!


Ma Kyung-hee (kyungheem@daum.net) is an editor and researcher specializing in mental health.



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Reconstructing personal narrative via therapeutic book club

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30.04.2024

Thanks to my beloved professor, Susie Snyder, a proponent of client-centered strength-based approaches to therapy, I developed a keen interest in narrative therapy while completing my master’s in social work program.

Narrative therapy provides various therapeutic benefits for clients, such as an increased level of self-understanding and self-compassion by transforming life’s challenges into strengths and freedom from an internalized narrative of self-blame.

It created a niche for me by amalgamating my English literature background with a newfound clinical knowledge in the field of social work. Being able to navigate the two fields offered me comfort and inner peace with a sense of continuity and even helped with personal struggles post-pandemic.

What I like most about narrative therapy is that it is non-blaming and non-pathological. This helps to create a safe space that allows clients’ stories to take center stage while facilitating positive change from within. As the name implies, narrative therapy uses storytelling to give new meaning and clarity to stressful or traumatic experiences. The role of a therapist is to help clients externalize problems rather than personalize them and reconstruct their stories in a new and........

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