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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: One strategy to change the quality of your life

I must admit that my to-do list inevitably grows more extensive than the hours of my day. I see that a meaningful, active life perhaps pulls for that....

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: You can’t get there from here

I once heard this phrase long ago, and it has stuck with me over the years. Many clients have asked me to clarify my meaning when I boldly pronounce:...

21.04.2024 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: How to guarantee your efforts fail

In my work with parents and individual adult coaching clients, I find most arrive at my office after trying various approaches to getting results....

14.04.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: The Outside Game Part II: Discipline

We all understand the role of discipline in creating a successful journey through life. Yet, many parents struggle with teaching discipline to their...

06.04.2024 8

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Which game do we focus on?

When speaking to parents with challenging children, there is often an urgency to address the specifics of what to do when a problem behavior shows up....

24.03.2024 4

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Why good advice & counseling doesn’t work

Many families seeking change for their children arrive after trying many other routes to help their children. Whether it’s anxiety that just gets...

17.03.2024 8

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Study the roots or enjoy the fruits. You choose

Many years ago, I heard the saying: You have a choice: You can live life studying the roots…or enjoy the fruits. But you can’t do both.” Of...

10.03.2024 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terriffic Parenting: Weakness comes from persistently seeking ease

One of the hallmarks of an anxiety-filled life is that their priority is to relieve their sense of anxiety or avoid future moments with possible...

25.02.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Unlocking growth: Understanding and overcoming trauma

Regardless of your life experiences, most of us have probably felt stuck in a rut at some point in our lives. It’s a sense of stagnation that seems...

11.02.2024 2

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Who Needs a Time-out?

21.01.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: To be happier, we must embrace the unfamiliar

We are creatures of familiarity. We could simply say creatures of habit. Or, more technically, we are creatures with brains that become conditioned to...

07.01.2024 9

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: ‘Do’ constantly, then maybe ‘have’ & afterward I can ‘be’ happy & fulfilled in 2024?

As the New Year is upon us, many of us reflect upon our lives, our successes, our satisfaction, where we have been and likely where we are going. If...

31.12.2023 8

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Santa: It’s time to set expectations!

Okay, let’s face it. Most children get too much stuff these days when Santa arrives. Too strong, you think? Perhaps, but we can know one thing for...

17.12.2023 2

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Thriving & enjoyment: The role of best effort.

We often delight in seeing an A on a test or witnessing our children or team win a game. Expressions of admiration for our children’s looks or...

10.12.2023 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Why consequences don’t work: It’s all about proximity

Some prospective clients seeking Neurofeedback to improve their child’s behavior report problems with their child’s inability to regulate...

03.12.2023 4

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Thanksgiving: The expression of gratitude

Imagine my delight when reminded of the definition of ‘Thanksgiving.’ It’s more than just a holiday; it means the ‘expression of gratitude.’...

19.11.2023 4

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Optimize life by utilizing natural brain tendencies

In recent years, research has revealed an essential tendency in our brains. Utilizing this propensity can give us more control over our lives and...

12.11.2023 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Stop trying to make it easier

In this persistently challenging world, don’t you wonder how best to successfully equip our children to navigate these rough waters of life? Indeed,...

29.10.2023 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: The dangers of unlimited phone use

In today’s digital era, teenagers are practically married to their phones. As parents look on, perhaps with a sigh of relief that their teenager is...

15.10.2023 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Update on the one percent solution

A few years back, I traveled to Chicago and had an interesting conversation with my new friend for three hours. He was 68 and off to windsurf in...

08.10.2023 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Dealing with children’s worries

Daily, the news is filled with horrific incidents worldwide, such as terrorism or the seemingly endless shooting sprees at workplaces, schools, and...

01.10.2023 1

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Get a head start on the day: Make mornings easy

For some, mornings are the worst part of the day. The constant conflict, the nagging and prodding, and the escalating emotions often result in an...

10.09.2023 5

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